About Activate The Goddess
Travis Ross is a dating advice specialist and the founding father of Activate The Goddess™.
Over the past 10 years, he’s reached over three thousand women together with his unique approach to finding long-lasting love.
Travis’s story
Hi, I’m Travis Ross, and I want to share a piece of my story with you.
I grew up in Germany with a loving mother and a close group of friends.
But once I got to college, I noticed that meeting women didn’t come naturally to me, and quickly my self-confidence took a dive. I gained weight and felt overwhelmed with nervousness just while trying to have a simple conversation with a woman. After graduation, the anxiety only got worse and I thought a nice job title and a sports car would fix it.
Go figure… it didn’t.
The struggle continued. I would sit at the reception thinking “what is wrong with me?” I knew I had a lot to offer a woman if she would just get to know me, but I had ZERO way to get that first connection.
So I made the decision to get proactive with my love life.
The realization
Like almost everything in life, you’re taught to thinks it’s got to be a hard road to realize our dreams. Whether it’s getting into shape or getting the perfect partner, you’re told: effort pays off.
Want a better job? “Put in extra hours.”
Want to be in shape? “Eat better and exercise more.”
Weirdly though, when it involves attracting love, society tells us a different narrative.
Want to feel love? “Wait for it to happen.”
Or better yet, “Love will come once you LEAST expect it.”
Unfortunately, for a few people (including myself), waiting didn’t work. I used to be trying to “let it come to me”, but all I got for my waiting was lonely Saturday nights eating Ben and Jerry’s on the couch.
Something had to change, and it had to be drastic. I knew I needed to do something big to get a huge transformation, but how?
One night, I put down the frozen bowl, looked at myself in the mirror, and decided to commit one year of my life to enhance my social skills and building my confidence with women. Whatever it took, I had to figure it out.
I did my research and learned that the majority of the “dating experts” out there had little-to-no “real world” experience and just preach manipulative mainstream advice that did not work. Most of them were single themselves and living without love. It made no sense.
After diving deep into the science and psychology of attraction, spending countless hours learning the foremost leading-edge research about love, confidence, and social skills, I made a decision to get out there and start authentically meeting women.
Little did I know this decision would put me on an adventure path…
Over the next few years, I faced more rejection than (I think) most men could bear in a lifetime. But I persisted and realized that dating and socializing is really just a learnable skill.
And I slowly but surely started getting a feel for authentic attraction.
Within a few years, I discovered that other men were asking me for dating advice. I started coaching these guys even put together a dating program that was very effective. A few of these guys bought me drinks and some even offered to pay me (what?!) for a private coaching session.
And that’s how my career as a love guru began. I noticed I had discovered something special, and that I had something unique to offer: authentic dating advice that gets tangible results. So I quit my job and have become a dating expert helping men build confidence around women.
People thought I lost my mind.
I became kind of like “Hitch” from the movie, the only difference – I had an actual repeatable process for helping these men build confidence to find love.
Word got around, and I quickly became the “go-to-guy” for anyone battling for a better love life.
The Flip
After four years of coaching many men on the way to find love, I built a reputation for understanding men and their deepest desires during a relationship.
Then, in 2012, my blog started to take off. I was getting tons more traffic and I was starting to get messages from women also, asking about advice with love.
Within weeks I was receiving so many emails from women asking me questions like…
“So, why do men pull away?”
“Tell me, how do I attract a top-quality guy?”
“How long should I wait before sleeping with him?”
And it was right then that I noticed that I had the answers they were looking for, and it had been NOTHING like what they were reading in magazines like Glamour. It was all of the important stuff, raw information they’d been seeking.
I began responding to every question with a step-by-step strategy on how to attract the guy she wanted confidently, and weeks later, I would find a response saying, “it worked!”
I started looking into other dating experts for women and quickly found that nobody talked about the most important building block of attracting men: self-worth. It was like all the dating coaches for men talked about confidence, but the dating coaches for ladies were only teaching short-term manipulative tactics to “trick a guy” into falling in love (yukkk!). Most of it was pure garbage, and though some of it worked, it would only get short-term results.
My goal was to support these women to find long, lasting love.
I immediately started my new blog, Activate The Goddess, and posted a couple of videos on YouTube discussing the importance of having self-worth like that of a Goddess.
The “activate” represented the awareness of feminine energy.
The “Goddess” represented the importance of deeply valuing yourself.
So I ended working with men and focused 100% of my energy on becoming a dating expert for ladies to serve them to attract long, lasting love.
I continued releasing weekly videos reaching over thousands of women worldwide.
Every day I wake up to emails from women who are feeling more confident, attracting higher quality men, and building relationships that last. This all stems from the methodology we’ve developed over the past 7 years.
So, has the dating expert found love?
Damn right I have.
On New Year’s Day Day 2018, I met the love of my life, Tanya. We were introduced through mutual friends and instantly connected.
When I finally told her what I do she needed a bit to digest it, but quickly, loved the concept and embraced this novel lifestyle of helping women find love.
And I must say, I hit the jackpot with Tanya. She not only meets the love vision I created for myself, but she’s beautiful, fun, and therefore the most supportive woman I’ve ever met.
We are incredibly happy and living our greatest possible life in Lviv. We spend our weekend’s painting, traveling, and exploring new restaurants around the city. The deep connection we’ve developed is something I want for you, and we’re here to make that a reality for you.
Get In Touch
If you have any questions, suggestions or comments feel free to contact me.
Your Love guru,
Travis Ross
