What makes a man crazy about you?

“Travis, how on earth do I make the men I like crazy about me?”

I was asked that question during a 1-on-1 coaching conversation with a woman who ran into the following problem … (And she is not the only one who is concerned)

“I see my friends arriving with one nice man after another”

“But I only attract the men I don’t find interesting, while the men I desire seem unattainable”

How is it possible that some people always seem to be lucky in finding their partner?

In this article, I will tell you all the secrets with which you can drive your dream fan crazy about you.

If you run into this problem, you will love what I tell you in this article.

I promise you that with these tips you will drive that one nice man completely crazy …

In this article you will learn:

How he will chase you through a clever marketing principle

The way to generate sexual tension between you

Make him crazy about you by using teasing teasing

How to make your husband addicted to you:

through your feminine energy

BONUS: Secret messages that ALWAYS makes him think of you. 

And much more…

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But first, watch this video where I give you 5 important tips:

Attract the men you want effortlessly

The first thing you want to be clear about for yourself is the following:

What is the situation you are in?

Are you currently in a relationship or are you looking for a relationship?

Or maybe you just want to enjoy all the goodies that a single life has to offer?

I have divided this article into two parts.

Situation 1: You are single (and you want to date nice men).

Situation 2: You’re in a relationship (and you want to drive him crazy).

For every situation, there are simple tips that make THE difference in that specific situation.

Make sure you have a clear picture of your desired outcome.

Situation 1: Not in a relationship

There he is… The nice man you long for. With his lovely smile and natural charisma, this is the man you love …

Now all you have to do is let him drive you crazy …

Eeh yeah .. you could use some help with that.

Fortunately, here I give you my 8 best tips to get it on the hook effortlessly.

Tip 1: Use the human tendency to avoid the loss

There is a human tendency that the entire marketing world loves …

A tendency we mere mortals cannot suppress …

This is the tendency of every human being to avoid losing anything at any cost.

This goes so far as to make the fear of losing something greater than the pleasure of winning.

This is called economic loss aversion ( Loss Aversion ).

Loss aversion refers to people’s tendency to prefer avoiding losses over gaining equivalent profits.

(When you lose $ 100 you are much angrier than you would be happy if someone gave you $ 100)

Let this be precisely the point where many women go wrong …

There is nothing wrong with going on dates with different men.

As long as you are single and still in the dating market, you are under no obligation to a man.

As long as you don’t keep anyone on a leash !! (Nobody likes to be lied to).

If you take yourself off the market when you meet a nice man, you will achieve the opposite of what you want.

In the early stages of dating, you want to keep talking to other men

If he feels like he could lose you to someone else, he’ll start chasing you a lot more.

Make sure there is potential for him to lose you. He will want to prevent this at all costs. J

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Tip 2: Avoid misapplication of the MOST common DATING ADVICE

It may be the most common dating advice you hear …

Look for passions that are common to both of you.

Of course, you must have common interests. You want someone to share your standards and values about the important points in your life.

However, something special is going on with passion.

You can be a perfect match, despite having other passions! (This is just right)

The problem is in the reactions most women come up with when a man has a different passion.

Conquer him with your response to his passions

Suppose a man is completely crazy about winter sports. This is his true passion.

An ideal vacation for him is a vacation he spends in the Alps sliding down on his snowboard.

Roughly speaking, women give 3 types of reactions to this (men do exactly the same thing).

# 1: Imagine you also love snowboarding

In that case, you could respond like this:

“Aah fat! I love snowboarding. But I bet I’ll dry you off in a race who’s down the fastest;) ”

You express your genuine interest. And adds a tease that you will beat him in a snowboarding game.

This way you build a connection AND you keep it nice and playful. (In tip 4 I will reveal why teasing and challenging work so well).

This works well for most women …

… the problem is in the reactions when your passion for snowboarding doesn’t match …

This is just 1 powerful tip to seduce and seduce men. You can find another 5 here:

6 Powerful tips to seduce & seduce men

# 2 You don’t have a strong opinion on this

This is not a problem in itself. However, it does become a problem if you give him the following reaction:

“Oh cool! Yes snowboarding is really fun ”

The problem with this reaction is that it does not trigger an emotion in the man. You simply agree with him …

The continuous agreement with everything he says is BORING. It comes across as unreal.

Plus it seems like you don’t have your own opinion about anything. While attractive men love an independent woman.

A woman who opposes the man a bit.

# 3 You really don’t like snowboarding

This is the other extreme of always agreeing with a man. In this case, many people shoot in an offensive response such as:

“Hey bah, really? I hate thee cold and winter sports. I really don’t understand how people go snowboarding for fun. ”

If you always disagree with him, it destroys the hope of connection.

He will feel attacked. This leads to an unpleasant feeling that makes him defensive.

That’s not the state of mind you want him in.

Use teasing to drive him crazy for you

If you don’t share his passions, don’t agree with him.

But don’t go against it just by criticizing.

The best response you can give in situations # 2 and # 3 is that of teasing.

These are little teasing comments that let him notice that you are flirting with him.

This way you don’t hang out with the boring happy yes-man or the blunt grumbling Gargamel.

It looks like this:

“Really? Okay, so I’m dealing with a real daredevil on a snowboard (wink)? ”

This is one response that makes for a fun, exciting conversation.

This way you keep the vibe of the conversation light and flirty -> what radiates on you as a person!

Teasing can be more fun and interesting than finding matches between the two of you.

I recently gave this advice to a reader who asked for advice. She had met a guy who loves fitness.

She, on the other hand, is more the type who deals with ‘hanging a sofa’ instead of ‘printing a sofa’.

She is not sporty 😉

Rather than agreeing with him or just criticizing his great passion, she teased him.

“Hmm, so you spend your hours voluntarily lifting heavyweights? Well, I will let you carry me around if I don’t feel like walking, that is useful to both of us (wink) ”

She said this with a big smile on her face and with a result …

She told me this was the turning point in the conversation!

In fact, he started teasing her back, making them REALLY connect for the first time.

Whew, the life of a dating coach can be beautiful.

Tip 3: Know where the man REALLY matters when it comes to your appearance

Everyone develops their own style during life. It doesn’t matter what the style is, as long as it is typically YOUR style.

What is more important is your personal hygiene. Fine if you’re going for the vintage hippie look, but please keep showering …

Three easy wins for every woman

# 1 Shave your body hair

I once dated a girl who didn’t shave body hair because she thought “those men who find a hairless look sexy have something in common with pedophiles.”

(Yeah … I was just as baffled as you, but that aside.)

Maybe those guys aren’t attracted to kids, but they just don’t like it when you stop shaving and start looking like Chewbacca.

In the time we live in, shaving is the way to go.

As well as the over 13 radiance enhancers you will find here:

14 Simple tips to immediately improve your appearance

# 2 Play with your hair

Your hair can be one of your greatest weapons when it comes to attracting a man. Play with your hair or put your hands through it while talking to him.

This one always works well:

Move your hair from one shoulder to the other with long locks to reveal your neck.

Playing with your hair two things happen.

It’s flirty and for a man, it’s something that makes you very attractive.

It gives him a hint that you like him. (This encouragement is needed too, for him to go back to flirting because this is very exciting for a man too)

Does he find me attractive? 17 unconscious but crystal clear signals

# 3 You throw in your prettiest smile

Smile 😀 You can easily make a man run wild with it.

Men love a beautiful glamorous smile in a woman.

Smile often, be happy and the world (especially the men) will see you as much more attractive.

Because let’s be honest, nobody likes to look at a grumpy head, not even you 😉

Tip 4: Every man likes a challenge: use it to your advantage

Think back to when this happened to you:

You meet a man who is very attractive at first glance. You get into a conversation with him, but gradually it is not possible to establish a connection with him …

While you get to know him better …

This way you know what work he does, what he studied, and even where he lives!

What is going wrong here?

You have ended up in an interview conversation.

You fire one boring, factual question after another at him as if you were a professional CV creator … (which is an existing profession for VAT)

But most likely not your profession! So why would you be interested in where exactly his office is? …

You want to stay away from factual boring information BEFORE there is a connection between you.

Unfortunately, men need these tips just as much as women …

Which makes it more than once that a man asks you a whole laundry list of boring, rational factual questions.

What you don’t want to do is react in a boring, rational way.

You don’t have to exchange factual stories!

What you want to do is tease him.

Teasing him creates healthy tension between you

9 smart tips to play hard to get and make a man crazy about you

This is the way to create attraction between you and him.

It ensures that you have a good and fun time together.

At the same time, it is a challenge for him.

As soon as you give him one of your genius tease punches, he’ll have to make a comeback to keep from getting all over him.

It’s refreshing to meet someone who knows how to challenge us men like that.

Teasing is the way to drive a man crazy with desire if you do it the right way.

I will explain it to you using an example.

If you want to tease him about his clothing style, you don’t want to insult him.

So don’t say:

“Jesus was an ugly shirt you are wearing, where did you get that” thing “dude?”

This is just a rude shitty comment. You’re not there to make him feel bad.

You want to take a more subtle approach.

A charming way to create tension between you is a clever trick that I teach women while coaching:

Teasingly accuse him of hooking up on you

In practice, this looks like this:

“Ooh okay, I see you tried your best to look good to me (wink)”

Now you are challenging him. This has all the elements that make a good paper note.

Love him, make sure he gets a smile on his (handsome) face.

If he tells a silly joke, tease him about it. For example, say he can do better.

Give him little signs of interest, smiles, flirty comments.

Then the conversations you have with him will be a relief compared to all the boring interview conversations he has with the rest.

If you want to know more about flirting, check out the article: Flirting Tips for Women

Tip 5: Use polarity to put it on

To attract a man there must be polarity between masculine and feminine energy.

If you want to conquer him, it is crucial to both be in these opposite energies.

Emitting feminine energy is THE way to be attractive to him.

He will long for you.

Whether you just got to know him or are already in the process of dating.

Avoid the biggest mistake you can make as a woman

Pure masculine energy is that of taking the lead. This manifests itself in addressing the woman, asking her number, asking her on a date, and so on.

You don’t want him to have to compete with you over who takes the man’s role.

This makes it important that you are not TOO aggressive in your approach.

Men always want to feel like they are conquering YOU.

You can sometimes take the initiative but do so by Tempting him not to LEAD.

Giving a subtle hint that you would like to meet up works better than trying to close him hard.

Here is a list for you of what men find incredibly unattractive. Memorize these so that a man never turns on you again:

17 Crucial turn-offs that men find terribly unattractive

Tip 6: The super trick that makes every man think of you

I have a secret message that you can take advantage of (keep it to yourself).

An attractive man, the kind of man you want, is busy.

(like everyone these days)

What you need to understand is that you are not the only woman he is in contact with.

If you can make him think about you more than the rest, then you must be special, right?

The question then is… How do you do this?

Using a clever super trick (that’s what my friend called it when a woman sent him this genius message)

My friend in question is a handsome, charismatic man (no homo 😉) with the women to choose from…

Yet there was 1 lady who made sure she was on top of his mind.

Not much special was going on until she did this …

* Drumroll *

The super trick:

She sent a picture of herself looking into the camera with a confident smile.

With the text “don’t think of me” she makes brilliant use of the pink elephant effect

This effect works as follows:

I want you ABSOLUTELY NOT to DO the following.

You can think of anything but NOT a pink elephant.

And? What were you thinking about now?

Exactly!

A pink elephant.

By saying what someone should NOT think about, that person should be thinking about that.

Telling my boyfriend not to think about her made him think about her all day long.

As result… he finally asked her on a date.

Let him think of you:

How men think: 6 steps to a man’s train of thought

Tip 7: Build intimacy during the dates

If you apply my previous tips every time you meet a new nice man, I know one thing for sure:

You will be asked a lot on dates.

A date is the following:

It’s a taste of what a relationship with you is going to be like.

If these previews are disappointing, he will not want to enter into a relationship with you.

Which brings us to the question:

How do you make sure that it goes beyond casual dating?

You make a man crazy about you by bringing the following three elements into your dates!

# 1 Vary with dates

Nothing is as boring as having a drink with someone 5 times in a row.

For a first date, this is fine.

After that, you want to vary your dates.

A new activity brings character traits and topics of conversation that you would not discover if you were always having a drink.

Originality is the winning factor here.

By coming up with creative ideas you are a source of refreshing experiences that add something to his life.

For example, visit the local city park or garden. Walk around here together, enjoying nature. This keeps the date wonderfully dynamic.

Take the pressure off the conversation by walking side by side. By then plopping down on a bench to chat at your leisure.

If you have brought food, you can make it a small mini picnic.

Do you love culture? Then attend the opening of a new gallery or exhibition. These are great events for dates because you don’t sit still in 1 place.

Plus, all the beauty (or weirds) that the gallery or exhibition has to offer brings plenty of conversation.

I have a nice list of activities for you.

# 2 Build the intimacy

If you believe every man is all about sex, you have been lied to.

Of course, sexual attraction is a MUST for any potential relationship.

You don’t want to be the prudish, bitter eternal virgin AND you don’t want to jump into bed with him right after the first date.

What I want to say to you is the following:

It may take some time for you two to have sex, as long as he feels that you are each getting more physically intimate.

If you apply the other tips correctly, he will have no problem waiting. As long as there is progression during the dates.

This is of (vital) importance. Touching someone strengthens the emotional bond between you.

In psychology, we call this The Power Of Touch.

Touch is the first sense we develop as a baby. This is the secret weapon in successful relationships.

# 3 Stay mysterious

On a date, you are supposed to get to know each other better.

Note: ‘ get to know better’ VS ‘know each other’s complete life stories’.

Think of the date as the trailer for a movie. Trailers work because we get a taste of what the movie will be about. Because of this, we want to see that movie.

Don’t tell him your FULL story yet. Be mysterious. You want to let him know more about time.

Giving him a little bit of info every time will keep you interesting. Your stories are little puzzle pieces.

He will want to solve the mysterious puzzle.

Situation 2: In a relationship

A good indicator of what your relationship is like is not how he feels about you when he’s with you …

But how he feels about you when you’re not together.

If he thinks …

“Poe, I’m glad to be away from her”

… It is time for a change.

What you want him to think is this:

“Damn I can’t wait to have her around me again”

Become the woman he can’t miss.

Use the following tips to make him crave you.

Tip 8: Make him long for your feminine energy

Masculine energy is the energy of the rational head. By nature, a man is more in his head than in the body.

Feminine energy is the energy of the vibrant body. It is a woman’s unique gift to take a man out of his mind and give more color to his life.

Be the woman he takes pleasure in. If you are the source of spontaneity and positive emotions, he will become addicted to you.

People are always moving away from pain and towards pleasure.

When you’re laughing together and enjoying each other’s company, you give him pleasure.

Stay away from this:

Complain. The average man has to hear enough complaining from his friends, colleagues, and family. This automatically causes irritation. Do not!

Being boring. Being boring mainly has to do with how you present yourself. Dare to create tension between the two of you!

Getting angry too quickly. This disrupts the relationship because he will constantly think to himself “I hope I’m not doing anything wrong”. You just want him to be comfortable.

By doing these things he will only experience negative emotions aka pain when he is with you.

This way he will not miss you.

In fact, he’ll be especially relieved when he’s not around you.

Do these things in particular:

Compliment him. Everyone loves compliments, even us men 😉

Make sure you laugh together. So make silly jokes, have fun with him.

Make a connection together. Tell him what’s on your mind. He will admire you for this.

If you do these things, he will enjoy you.

Let fun be just what he can’t get enough of!

All nice things to say to a man can be found here:

17 Original things that men like to hear

Tip 9: Break the routines: Don’t let your old brain determine your relationship!

Man is a creature of habit. We love routines and store them in the old part of our brain (we share this part of our brain with reptiles, for example).

Routines for rest and regularity in our lives. It gives your little one a nice feeling of security and safety.

As soon as we are with our partner for longer, certain behavioral patterns wear off.

You routinely go to the movies on Friday evening as if you were switching so autopilot …

Not very exciting.

Routine is too predictable.

You want to avoid becoming predictable!

Predictability is THE killer of attraction

Avoid the grind!

Do something he doesn’t expect. You want to bring tension and excitement to the relationship.

Do things you are not used to.

If you always go out for dinner, go do something else.

Do something exciting

For example, go to a Ghost Tour such as ‘The Amsterdam Dungeon’ together.

Ghosts tours are great for many reasons.

This way you can let your imagination run free, the adrenaline will pump through your body and the many frightening moments ensure that you experience something together that is adventurous.

Be spontaneous. Secretly make plans for the evening to go to a performance of a cabaret. Surprise him and never be too predictable.

Visit new places

Go to new places. The world has so many beautiful things to offer, go on a journey of discovery with your partner.

This does not mean that you have to book the longest trips together. Visit a part of your city that you have never seen before. Enjoy the local sights.

You can keep seducing your husband if you keep innovating.